wed-harm

awesome

bandits 2001, @ 1.40-1.45 the two of you make the perfect man- 

wow! the idea of one man to one woman has several dangers and what if two men together are the perfect match for one woman- but there is another angle

counterproductive

in the same way that a woman who complains that her husband does not spend time with her that complaining is the "cause" that it is not FUN to be around and causes the effect of less together time because he does not want to hear compolains and counterproductive and intensifies the separation-

instead if a woman wants her husband around more SHE SHOULD MAKE IT FUN TIME in fun talk etc.

complain is counterproductive and results in less together time

similarly when two people are NOT WED-if they enjoy together time they each INVEST EFFORT

so the other will want to be near-

until they decide to wedf

 that HARMS !!

they rely on the wedding bond-
to keep them together-
instead of politeness.

be aware of the harm of wed!