who would think that one letter could make such a difference.
for a man, lifetime out of marriage is better with an "e" because there is no limit to possibilities for mating, male or female.
marriage is bad and bitter with an "i" because it limits the spouses, and even defines outer sex as bad cheating- and this limitation allows for manipulations.
who loses? if a man "punishes" his wife with no sex, then who loses? the man has always been the one desperate enough to pay for sex.
when have we ever seen women OFFERING money to a man to sleep with them? the women GET the money-
and marriage is the SAME arrangement- if the man GIVES her gold jewelry, the engagement ring and another ring and more gold jewelry later- and the women say harlots are victims-? that is the SAME as marriage and also ridiculous because they get the money. [the only issue is pimping not the harlotry itself a distinction which society blurs]
saying harlotry of sex for money is bad- then marriage is the same evil arrangement- gold jewelry and compliments for sex- a condition which if not provided, then do not expect a "wife" but a college-room mate only.
***woe to the man who "comments" about his wife's spending- then she says "I am not in the mood" either in truth because women are almost never in the mood for s,ex or because she is in the mood but is annoyed about the criticism.
considering women are rarely in the mood for sex and less in the mood during pregnancy it seems very appropriate to have four wives as the book of genesis described-
when one is not in the mood she can wait a few weeks while i am with the others- yet society does not allow polygamy- calling it "immoral" despite it being in the holy book! and being very logical based on marriage experiences... in fact, society makes the wife-harlotry TOO EXPENSIVE for more than one wife. gold jewelry... and a million dresses...
so before any religious marriage consider that out of marriage is better [letter e] and trust me:
avoid religious marriages... any limitation resulting from marriage is the bitter [with letter i] status.
*as the divorcee explained to his young son and daughter who asked why are you leaving?
"it is not your fault, kids, would you be happy if you could only play with one of your toys", well said!
imagine playing the only one same video-action-game every day for a week with no variety.
the marriage creates limitations and manipulation, so who loses? the one who has always been desperate enough to pay for sex- the men.
too bad that the only medium to discuss this bitter truth is on comedy television because this is VERY SERIOUS.
we need to spread this difficult and very bitter [with i] truth.
it should be spoken about in churches too.
clergy need to tell people to get pre-nups [pre-marital agreements that discourage marriage for money and divorce] and... WAIT JUST A freaking minute!
***what comes to mind with the terminology "church clergy"- what the heck!
they can tell OTHERS "until death you are bound"
***no wonder clergy do not marry!
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