what exactly is marriage?
marriage is a religious thing- that is why marriages are performed in THE CHURCH=it is religious. for same-genders to agree to commit to each other- is certainly different than the religious because religious will not "couple" same-gender. it is simply a commitment to bind them together without religion.
marriage is the commitment of the man and wife not have se,x with any other. that means that if one decides to deny the spouse se,x they are stuck because they committed to the marriage concept- who will suffer by this?
if we consider that women never PAID money to men, out of desperation for s,ex, while men did pay the "harlot" - that shows who is more desperate... hence the limitation of marriage puts the man at risk- if he does not honor his wife "enough" or "criticizes her spending" or other annoying, then she will say "I am not in the mood for sex and you will not rape me" and who suffers? she does not need to pay any man to do it. and the man can only get it when not married because of the religious commitment called marriage.
some people say that the harlot is the victim but consider the mans deperation even to pay money for se,x while the woman GETS the money, and in marriage has the same arrangement sex for GETS gold jewelery the only way not to feel like a harlot is not to have sex so the man becomes desperate yet again.
the men which "have always been" desperate enough to pay for sex will have no sex at all because the marriage "limits them" to manipulative women- leaving zero. so take my advice-
**avoid marriage and avoid religious marriage.
if single women can have insemination then single men should be allowed to use out of marriage surrogate proxy for their child if they desire.
if not the man loses again and loses more than the women who are almost NEVER in the mood anyway or are and lie that they have a headache...
sounds like bitter grapes? yet outside of marriage is not bitter! the options are there: male and female.
